I've got some friends who are traveling to Hawaii for the first time this summer. Maybe you too will be one of the 10 million visitors to the islands this year. If you need something to read on the plane, you might try my take on what growing up on Oahu was like, or my guide to basic Hawaiian Pidgin expressions. Let me just add briefly: Don't worry about trying to fit in. Everyone will know you're a tourist. Actually, we don't care where you come from. We care about your behavior. As I said the other day, tip well. Be kind. Do just those two things and you could wear the zaniest aloha short and still be welcome.