Monday, June 8, 2026

It's Someone's Birthday

Well, seems like I'll complete yet another orbit around the sun tomorrow, meaning that June 9 is my birthday. Wishing you all the best, Dave. 

I suppose birthdays serve as a reminder of the years gone by and the adventures ahead. As I turn 74, I'm reminded that Christ will continue to help me face the "big three" struggles of life.

The first is my struggle with the sarx, my human nature. It's been a long, weary battle (I've been a Christian since I was 8). But when we honestly confess our defeat and ask for the fullness of Christ, he performs a continuing miracle of making us more like himself.

He will also free me from the struggle to be adequate. I realize I'm completely insufficient for the demands of life. But I also know his all-sufficiency. There is no problem he can't solve, no person he can't love, and no challenge he's not able to meet.

He will relieve me from worrying about the future. What the Lord allows to happen to us he will use for the greater growth of his fullness in us. Whatever I will face in my 74th year will be an occasion for new dimensions of his character to be formed in me.

Paul's phrase "the stewardship of God's grace given to me" (Eph. 3:8) is a great motto for an aging grandfather. Everything that happens to us is not only for our personal growth in grace but for our ministry to others. We seniors know we're meant for more than survival. We can triumph in Christ. 

For Those (Like Me) Who Struggle with Weight Loss

Did you know that, at one time, to adopt a child from South Korea you could not have a BMI of over 35? In Thailand it's the same. These agencies obviously want to reduce the risk of future health complications that could impact the parents' life expectancy and their physical ability to raise their child. In the U.S., there are no weight restrictions put on adoption applicants that I know of. 

This raises an interesting question: Does being overweight/obese to the point that it affects your health make you less of a "good" parent? I know of many extremely effective parents who are overweight/obese. Yes, it's difficult for them to do physical things with their children, and yes, one might question the kind of example being set. But they're still great parents. 

Maybe the more basic question has to do with the nature of weight gain and loss. Some insist that good health and weight loss is a choice. I don't necessarily disagree. But people do not always have full control over their weight. I see obese people at the gym all the time and have nothing but the greatest respect for them. Who am I to judge them? I do not know what it's like to be morbidly obese and so I do not know the challenges of losing an extreme amount of weight and keeping it off. For a long time I was overweight myself. I didn't take care of my body (the temple of the Holy Spirit) as I should have. But that didn't make me any less of a person or a Christian. It just doesn't help a person to lose weight by hating on themselves and beating themselves up because they are obese. 

Perhaps what it boils down to stewardship. It's really hard for me to watch people completely sabotage their health. Almost anyone can find time to exercise. And probably very few people have a genuine physiological reason for their weight. But appearance isn't everything. And, like I said the other day, just because someone is fit doesn't mean they are healthy. As you know, I recently lost 50 pounds. But unless I knew you extremely well, I would never tell you to lose weight. Talk to anyone who struggles with an eating disorder or a food addiction and they will tell you that being obese feels like a destiny to them. I find it more inspiring to see someone who has accomplished something in spite of their weaknesses and shortcomings. I've been blessed with the fact that my weight came off relatively easily. Others I know are not so blessed. But while many struggle with their weight, they don't give up. 

When I was a child I was bullied mercilessly because I was skinny. Much of it assumed I was either not aware of it or not taking care of myself. I spent hours agonizing over my appearance because of it. I found the judgment of other people to be really harmful and hurtful. Nowadays I have friends at the gym who say they are jealous of me and how fit I am. But they have no idea what a huge struggle it is for me to stay this way. I love food as much as the next person and I would eat all day long if I could. But I am gradually learning to respect my body too much to ever treat it the way I used to. Healthy eating is not easy and never has been. Thankfully, I love being active. And by the grace of God I have found a formula that works for me. Every person has to find a formula that works for them. At the end of the day, we all know what we see in the mirror. And it's largely up to us to change it if we can. 

Weight loss is a deeply personal journey. I'm so grateful to be able to share my journey with you. Are you embarking on your own journey? Be patient and celebrate every small victory. Remember that the primary goal of any weight loss program is overall health and wellbeing, not a number on the scale. 

Today's Peripatetic Ambulation (PLUS, Buying New Shoes)

Aka "Walking." 😎

You may have never thought about this, but continuing to walk in shoes that are worn out or poorly suited to your gate or walking style may be holding back your progress. The reason this matters is biomechanical. Every step we take involves a complex chain of forces moving up through the foot and ankle and knee and hip and also lower back. And each joint in that chain depends on the one below it absorbing and distributing the force correctly. 

When the cushioning in your shoe has worn down, which can happen very gradually and invisibly, that force goes directly into your joints instead. Studies have shown that worn out shoes significantly increase the stress placed on the knee joint with every single step in ways that are associated with worn down cartilage over time. All of this happens very gradually. There's no sudden pain or obvious sign. It just accumulates very gradually, step by step and walk by walk. 

Most walking shoes maintain their cushioning for around 300-500 miles, give or take. After that, the shoe is no longer doing its job. 

As you can see, in the past year I've averaged around 250 miles a month in my shoes. I have found that after 300-400 miles my shoes actually start working against me and need to replaced. This means I need to buy a new pair of shoes (I always get the Altra brand) about every 2 months. This isn't about buying really expensive shoes. But please make sure you are not "shooting yourself in the foot" by continuing to walk or run in worn out shoes. 

Have a blessed (peripatetic) day! 

Sunday, June 7, 2026

The Power of Music

Once a ballerina, always a ballerina. 

This is possibly the most profoundly heartwarming video I've ever seen on Youtube. Brings tears to my eyes everytime I watch it. At 0.19 the ballerina is back. She moves like a swan. I don't see an old lady. I see a youthful spirit at the height of her career. 

What a beautiful testament to the power that music has over the human mind and body. 

Getting in Shape Means Reframing Your Mindset

You're overweight? Great! 

It's going to be a bigger story to tell about God's amazing grace! 

Exercise Is a Double-Edged Sword

This is an essay I've been wanting to write for quite some time.

You may have heard the expression "double-edged sword." This refers to a situation, action, or choice that offers both positive benefits and negative consequences at the same time. There's an undeniable benefit to what you're doing. But there's an equal, almost unavoidable risk or hidden cost as well. Examples include:

  • Going viral on social media (you get instant fame but lose your privacy).
  • Working from home (you can work in your PJs but it also blurs your work-life balance and makes you feel isolated).
  • Winning the lottery (you have become incredibly wealthy but fake friends suddenly crawl out of the woodwork asking for money).

Did you read about the 3 men who ran the Detroit Marathon and died? One of them was only 26. Running is not necessarily an inherently risky activity. But people do die while running marathons. Sometimes the cause of death is cardiomyopathy -- an enlarged heart. These deaths are almost always due to a pre-existing heart condition. The fact is, people who rarely exercise are 50% more likely to die of a heart attack during vigorous exercise than those who exercise 5 times per week. So the odds are pretty good that running will lengthen your lifespan rather than cut it short.

For your body to get strong, you need stress and recovery. Both are vitally important. But the balance  between them is also important. Too much stress? Your body breaks down. Not enough recovery? Your body isn't ready for the next level of stress. Only when your body is continually healing itself can it become strong, fit, and healthy. Without adequate recovery, your body will not become stronger. 

For a very long time I thought, "Maybe that's true for others but not for me!" I overtrained every part of my body that I trained. I really believed I was invincible. One year I even ran two marathons on back to back weekends (Richmond and Baltimore). What I didn't realize at the time is that the only way to be prepared to do workouts with the intensity they deserve is to allow your body time to relax and recover. Instead of rushing into the process or hurrying it along, I needed to take it slow and enjoy each step along the way. What's important is that you find the frequency that gives you maximum improvement with minimum risks. 

My point is this. Exercise does not necessarily equate to good health. In fact, the harder you push yourself in your sport (whatever that is), the more damage your body can sustain. It's well known if you assess the the blood chemistry of marathon runners (I've done 20 of them) post-race that you will find evidence of heart muscle damage, skeletal muscle damage, kidney disease, and elevated markers for stress hormones. Another study showed that 44% of ultramarathon runners (I ran an ultra a month ago) had elevated creatinine levels (a byproduct of the kidneys' blood filtering process), which is high enough to indicate acute kidney damage. 

I'm reminded of how risky life can be even when you're just out doing something you love. Every time I run an ultra or climb a high mountain or go surfing when the waves are breaking over 8 feet, I suppose there is risk involved. But you have to keep on living, right? Beyond taking standard precautions (as I do), what else can you do? I'm sure there were times while surfing on the North Shore that I almost died without knowing it. I think we all have at least one memory of something we did and God somehow protected us and we didn't perish. Yes, there are sharks in Hawaii, but that doesn't keep me from going surfing every time I'm on Oahu. I had a near drowning experience when I was 16 and surfing huge waves at Pipeline. I had lost my board and had been been swimming for maybe 20 minutes when I ran out of air. Thankfully I wasn't too proud to call out "Help!" and another surfer came and let me recover while hanging onto his board. I can't tell you how many "unplanned dismounts" I had while riding my Thoroughbred Traveler cross country. By God's grace, I never even broke a single bone. My cousin Pila died while surfing at Waikiki when I was 12. 

Like anything in life, you take a risk. You find what you love to do (be it jumping out of an airplane or riding a big wave or climbing a tall mountain) and you accept the fact that you are taking chances. How are we supposed to live life to its fullest if we are consumed by every little thing that could happen to us? On the other hand, I do try and be responsible. When I climb the alps, I always hire the best mountain guide I can find (he charges $850 per day). I eat and rest well. I get regular physicals. I listen to my body. Still, there are risks. 

To go back to running, studies show that marathoners over 50 are twice as likely to have a heart attack while running than runners under 40. That said, the odds are still in our favor. Only 1 in 100,000 marathoners ever die during a race. Not to mention the fact that by running we reduce our risk of so many other conditions such as diabetes, various cancers, and heart disease. We simply can't let risk and fear stop us from doing what we love. 

Yes, I am a risk taker. Anything we do will have inherent risks, even driving to the store. Here's my take if anyone cares: the benefits far outweigh the risks

A Satisfying Workout

Satisfied with today's workout. 

7 miles at the High Bridge Trail. 

Nothing crazy, but something good for me. 

Saturday, June 6, 2026

Stop Procrastinating


Hot, Humid ...

... and Happy!

Loving Me Some SoVa

Today's walk in Farmville was out-of-this-world fun.

Southern Virginia is justly famous for its abundant outdoor recreation, authentic small-town charm, and unmatched affordability. The peaceful, rural lifestyle is a far cry from the densely populated and expensive urban tracks to the north. I live not 8 miles from Buggs Island Lake, which features 50,000 acres of fresh water and 800 miles of shoreline for fishing, boating, and swimming. SoVa is also renowned for its rich agricultural heritage, which I am humbled to say I am a part of. Virginia is packed with incredibly charming towns, but Farmville takes the cake. I can see the sky at night and I can hear the bear coming out of the woods with plenty of time to run back to my house nestled in 123 acres of historic Virginia farmland. 

What is your favorite thing about where you live? 

Friday, June 5, 2026

The Best "Firsts" of Life

What are some of the "firsts" in your life that you'll never forget? First pet? First bike ride? First girlfriend? First kiss? First day of college? First full-time job? First marathon? First child? First book published? First visit to Europe? First conversation in a foreign language? First big risk you took? Firsts are so meaningful. Somehow they fundamentally reshape how our brains store memories. You sense, "This is the beginning of something great." 

Here's the Breithorn near Zermatt in Switzerland. 

It was the first 4,000-meter peak I ever climbed. Many aspiring alpiners choose it as their first summit at this height. Guides call it a relatively "easy" climb. But it's no casual walk. This is a true glacier route and a mountain guide is essential. Its name suits it perfectly. "Breit" means "broad" in German, and the Breithorn extends for more than 2 kilometers, with several summits along its crest. It's so beautiful up there. 

If the Lord wills, I hope to climb another 4,000-er this summer. Climbing the Alps is such a magical experience because it seamlessly blends raw, glacier-carved majesty with centuries of rich culture. The peaks just absolutely soar skyward above the valley floors. 

As one famous French alpinist noted, climbing the Alps is ultimately about the joy of discovery, seeing beyond the horizon, and the camaraderie of your mountain guide. 

What new firsts are you eagerly anticipating this summer? 

Happy Aloha Friday!!

Any excuse to wear your aloha shirt haha. 

What are your weekend plans? I'll be getting up hay, Lord willing. 😎

Hold Tomorrow Loosely (James 4:13)

Loved being in James 4 this morning!

James describes misplaced confidence in 5 ways:

It's called presumption!

The fact is, I'm not in charge. 

I have no right to predict any of these things!

So here's what I do.

When I fill out my day planner -- when I write down an appointment or a trip or an occasion -- I pray:

"Lord, I am at your disposal. You can change any part of this at any time. I invite you to do that. Nothing here is set in concrete. This is how I see life my unfolding this year, but I'm not in charge. Lord, you're in charge. This is your year. It's only on loan to me. So I want to live it for your glory. I don't want to be involved in anything that you don't want. So if there's anything here that might not be your will, please reverse my course."

This August I hope to get back to Hawaii. 

I plan to surf every day while I'm there. 

My plane tickets are purchased. 

My accommodations are arranged for. 

But that's MY plan. 

I hold it loosely. 

Because "my" life isn't really my life. 

I hope to teach Greek again in the fall. 

I hope that will unfold. 

I'm planning on it. 

But it's all written in pencil and can be erased at any time. 

This is how I want to live my life. 

All for his glory. 

All for his pleasure. 

Thank you, James, for the reminder. 

Walking Outdoors Whenever We Can

Hey guys. During the winter months I walked almost exclusively on an indoors treadmill at the Y. From a pure step count perspective, indoor and outdoor walking look identical. But from a broader physiological perspective, they are vastly different. 

Outdoor walking in natural daylight, even if it's cloudy and rainy, provides light exposure that regulates the body's circadian rhythm -- the internal 24-hour biological clock that governs sleep timing, hormone release, and immune function. The reason this is important is because light is detected by specialized cells in the retina, the light sensitive layer at the back of the eye. These cells send signals directly to the parts of the brain that control your circadian clock. Research has demonstrated that circadian disruption -- a misaligned body clock -- increases the risk of metabolic, cardiovascular disease, and impaired immune function. Natural light also stimulates dopamine release in the retina, which has documented benefits for your mood and also your eye health as well. Artificial light, however bright, produces light exposure of around 200-500 lux at best, whereas outdoor daylight, even on a heavily overcast day in the middle of winter, typically exceeds 5,000 lux. That difference isn't trivial! 

Moving your walking outdoors costs nothing and adds benefits that indoor walking simply cannot replicate. So if you can, do what I do -- try and get your walks outside even if it's for just a couple of minutes.

Today's walk:

Today's steps:

Thursday, June 4, 2026

Farming During a Drought

This year the drought in southern Virginia, including Mecklenburg County where we live, has been severe. For that reason I was so happy to see my son back out in the fields today cutting several acres of horse quality hay. 

This follows one of the driest springs on record. The drought has led to extreme soil moisture deficits and low groundwater levels. Despite some much-needed rain in May, the area remains under a critical drought warning, with farmers facing major hardships. Right now we are roughly 7.5 inches below normal precipitation levels for the year, with many regions experiencing historically dry Aprils. The dry soil has delayed planting for many crucial crops like soybeans, corn, and hay. Parts of Virginia have not seen drought-free conditions since August of last year. All farmers are feeling the effects, and our farm is no exception. 

What to do? Since we do not have artificial irrigation, there is very little we can do but trust God. It is one of the most humbling realities of farming that a successful harvest depends on factors that are entirely out of a grower's control. Farming naturally cultivates a deep sense of reliance on the One who can control nature. Hence many of the farmers I know emphasize the balance between faith and work -- praying (at times desperately) for rain while still diligently doing everything they can so that they are ready for the harvest when it comes. Little wonder Jesus often used farming as a primary teaching tool. He often referenced seeds, harvests, and vineyards while explaining deep spiritual truths. 

That's pretty much our philosophy on our farm. Yes, farming can be hard. But the good farmer depends on the Lord. The Bible says, "The Lord took the man and put him into the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it" (Gen. 2:15). Farming is a calling, not a curse. Every act of farming is an act of faith. So keep on planning. Keep on working. Keep on believing. God never forsakes his own. "Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we shall reap a harvest if we do not give up" (Gal. 6:9).

Have a blessed day! 

How Much Time Should I Rest between Sets?

When you do nothing, something always happens. Sometimes what happens is a negative thing. Just don't change the oil in your car or mow your lawn. At other times, the act of not doing something is beneficial. 

I often see guys in the gym flitting from one exercise to another with hardly any rest between exercises or even sets of the same exercise. In effect, they've turned their workout into a cardio session. I used to do this myself. The bottom line is that when you're in the gym, your goal should be to build muscle (hypertrophy). The more weight you can lift with proper form, the more muscle growth you're going to ultimately stimulate. The problem comes when we jump into our next set before we've had the chance to fully regenerate our strength back to its full potential from the previous one. If the amount of rest between sets that you're currently doing means that you end up lilting less weight in the end or performing fewer exercises with the same weight, then you should be resting longer assuming that you want to squeeze out as much as possible during your gym sessions. For the average natural lifter like me, longer rest times allow you to move more weight across the workout as a whole. 

Of course, there's no pre-set rest time for every individual lifter. I would just say that between sets, make sure you rest as long as you need to in order to feel fully physically and mentally recovered so that you can give maximum effort on your next set. This means waiting until your breathing and heart rate are down to normal. The after-effects from the previous exercise should have significantly subsided, and you feel able to lift again at your full potential. For many lifts that we perform, this could mean 3 minutes all the way up to 4 or 5 minutes or more. If you're moving through your workout at a faster pace, that's going to obviously increase the risk of injury.

This is probably not too big a deal for those smaller isolation exercises like dumbbell curls. But whenever you're moving more total weight, and if your goal is to train in close proximity to failure, then taking slightly longer rest times between sets improves your ability to achieve progressive overload in the big picture. Here I am today resting between sets of incline dumbbell chest presses. I'm resting for at least 5-6 minutes between sets to ensure that my technique remains as solid as possible. 

Again, this is an instance where "when you do nothing, something always happens" is to be taken in a positive sense. There's a time to lift and a time to rest.  

Wednesday, June 3, 2026

Kailua Sunrise

They say the best seats on Oahu don't require a reservation.

My Strategy for Climbing and Surfing This Summer

I'll never rush something just for the sake of doing it. My goal is to make getting in shape and seeing changes in my physique simple. 

Here are my rules for getting back to Switzerland and Hawaii this summer:

Hit every muscle group 3 times a week with the volume it needs to grow.

Train hard -- 2-3 sets until failure.

Prioritize progressive overload -- pushing your limits with weights, reps, and sets -- and maintain intensity to provide your body with a reason to build new muscle.

Avoid excessive long-duration running, which can interfere with muscle building. Instead, prioritize low-intensity steady-state cardio like walking, ideally performed after training sessions. Aim for 10,000 steps daily.

Stop being afraid of carbs. Carbs are what fuel your workouts. Carbs are your body's main fuel source for training. They help you lift heavier, recover better between sets, and maintain higher intensity. All of that directly improves your workouts. 

Don't overdo it. At 73, you can get injured from sneezing. Be wise in your training. 

Enjoy time with family and friends, follow the plan, and stick to your baseline system. 

Remember your grandkids. You are who they want to be. You are their hero. So keep showing up no matter what. In the gym, and at home. 

Eat at a slight calorie deficit and chip away. In 3-4 months you'll look chiseled. 

Have a great day everyone! 

Happy Global Running Day!

From walking, not running, however! 

Tuesday, June 2, 2026

Grateful

The most reliable way to tell if you're shedding fat is by measuring your waistline. You can also monitor how your clothes fit and check if your strength is maintained in the gym. In addition, visual changes can be tracked by taking weekly progress photos in the same lighting and clothing. 

Then there's the scale. The problem is that the scale can lie about your weight because it's only measuring your total body weight and not what that weight is made of. It simply can't distinguish between fat, muscle, and water. Every single day your body weight can fluctuate by a few pounds in either direction. 

That said, the scale can show minor victories in your fat loss journey. I can clearly remember when I went from 240 pounds down to 230, then from 230 down to 220, 220 down to 210, and then 210 down to 200. Breaking the 200 barrier (entering "One-derland") came shortly after that. 

Nowadays my scale weight fluctuates between 1990 and 1995. But this morning my scale had a number I hadn't seen since my 40s -- 189. To me that's a massive milestone that goes far beyond just seeing a new number on the scale. It's given me a profound psychological boost. 

For this and easily a hundred thousand other things, I offer this prayer of gratitude to God. 

Steps (and Samosas)

Today's steps:

A study published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine followed over 50,000 walkers and found that regular walking reduced the risk of cardiovascular disease by 31% and the risk of dying from any cause by 32%. Yes, that's 32%! That is massive. And that's without a doctor's prescription or a gym membership, no equipment needed. Just walking. It's one of the most powerful health interventions available to anybody on the planet.

Not to mention the fact that if you do your walking in Farmville, you get to eat Indian food afterwards. 

We Are God's MASTERPIECE (Eph. 2:10)

The word of God never ceases to amaze me. Here I was this morning, reading a very familiar passage in Ephesians, when a word leaped off the page. 

In Eph. 2:20 Paul says "We are his workmanship." "Workmanship" is poiÄ“ma in Greek. I love this word! It refers to "something that is made." But it's often used to describe a thing of beauty and perfection. Hence the ISV's, "We are his masterpiece." 

Our word "poem" is related to the Greek word. A good poem typically features flow, symmetry, order, balance, strong imagery, emotional depth, imagination, and a sense of mystery. You and I are created for nothing less. The Lord wants to shape us into the beautiful masterpieces he intends for us to be. He sees the potential even when we don't. He wants to move us to a place where we can look back at our lives -- body, soul, and spirit -- with amazement. This "new perspective" if you will enables us to produce the good works he has planned for us to do.

Friend, 

You are God's poiÄ“ma. 

You are God's magnum opus (Latin for "great work").

You are God's chef-d'oeuvre (French for "master of work").

You are the result of God's outstanding creativity.

Yes, YOU.

You are The Mona Lisa, The Stormy Night, The Creation of Adam, American Gothic, The Last Supper, Washington Crossing the Delaware. The difference is you're not the product of Monet or Picasso or Degas or da Vinci or Cezanne or Rembrandt or van Gogh but of God himself. Your masterpiece state is settled, your status secure. It's part of your inheritance in Christ.

Enjoy! 

Tied Up in Nots

A few weeks ago, I lost a 50K ultramarathon. I know because a guy named Brian Dibetta won, and I have a different name from his. To add insult to injury, he finished a whopping 78 places ahead of me. I was so disappointed to finish 79th, but it was even more disheartening to miss out on 78th place by a mere minute or two. It still haunts me.

This is me today at the Y. 

This may be a far cry from the out of shape slob I was a couple of years ago, but I'm still slow and a plodder. However, I'm an excellent reader, and one thing I know from the research is that the first step toward lifelong running is simple: the way you overcome your doubts and fears is one step at a time. With each step forward, it becomes more and more difficult NOT to become an athlete. The same applies to gym workouts. Until you exorcise the demons screaming at you, "Why bother?" there's no point in even trying. 

We Christians talk a lot about faith. Well, staying active is an act of faith. You don't find the answers just by thinking about something. Little by little, day by day, you'll find the answers by action. And, since it's impossible merely to trade your body in for a new and improved model, you have to accept the natural weaknesses and limitations of the body you have. My left arm is shorter and weaker than my right arm. Complaining about it does you no good. You can, however, exercise your left arm, as I'm doing here, in the hope that it can play catch up. 

And here's a pull up I did today. 

I use pull ups as finishers -- I end my workouts with them. Today I did 6 sets of one rep each. It took me two years to do my first pull up. Which reminds me: the key to running or lifting for the rest of your life is not talent -- it's dedication. Weight training won't always get you what you want, but if you pay attention, it will usually give you what you need. 

You see, exercise isn't a goal or destination. It's a way of living, a state of affairs. Focus on where you are instead of on where you want to be. Keep track instead of keeping score. You may never win a race, but the years ahead can be filled with victory after victory. In fact, next year you might even finish the race in 78th place. And that would be something to celebrate. 

Monday, June 1, 2026

Spirit of Hawaii

My body may be in southern Virginia but my mind has wandered disobediently to a tiny speck in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. 

Makapu'u Beach, Oahu, Hawaii. 

One photo can't quite capture it.

If you could spend the day anywhere on Oahu, where would it be? 

Health Is a Byproduct of Lifestyle

Your health is a byproduct of how you live.

Family.

God.

Strong community.

Walking daily.

Hard physical work.

Sunlight.

Simple food.

Controlled stress.

Discipline.

Purpose.

Prayer and Bible study.

Same habits every day.

Same wake-up time.

Gratitude.

This is typically how Americans lived before the industrial revolution. Today most men completely ignore their lifestyle and health as a whole.

Their diet is terrible.

They fail to exercise.

They lack drive and purpose.

They argue with their family.

They live a sedentary life.

They rarely get outdoors.

They hate what they see in the mirror.

They're on their phones all day.

They're addicted.

They're stressed out.

They're undisciplined.

They're inconsistent.

They take no time for God. 

The best physiques aren't build by gym bros. They're built by men who live an aesthetic lifestyle, consistently, for years on end.

So how can you start?

Take your lifestyle seriously. 

We've all only got one shot at life. 

You might as well give it 100% effort. 

There's a whole world of health and fitness waiting for you brother.

Let's all go get it! 

Walking: A Win-Win Form of Exercise

Did you know that walking is as fundamental to human health as are breathing and sleeping? If so, why has something so biologically essential become so overlooked in our conversations about health? Let's start thinking of walking as a physiological necessity, not simply as a form of exercise. When we think of walking as mere exercise, it can easily become optional. Walking is a core biological input that we as homo sapiens and as pipeds walking on two feet need for our survival. Walking affects our musculoskeletal system. It affects our central nervous system. It affects our lymphatic system. It's the kind of repetitive, low intensity activity that's crucial for our wellness. And it's one of the most easily accessible forms of exercise. We ALL need to be doing it. Just try to get 10,000 steps per day. After 10,000 steps, the law of diminishing returns begins to kick in. 

Recently I've begun to reduce my daily step count from 17,000 to anywhere between 10 and 15,000.

Today's step count. 

That's because my weight training has entered a new, muscle-building phase that involves very intensive workouts. Also, now that it's summer, I'm doing all of my walks outdoors (usually at the High Bridge Trail) for the vitamin D benefits. 

By making walking a consistent habit, we can increase our total daily energy expenditure without the muscle damage, joint stress, or excessive appetite stimulation associated with high-intensity cardio. And because walking is a gentle activity, it is easy on our joints and muscles, which helps improve recovery from our weight training sessions. It's also an easy habit to maintain long-term, which is crucial for consistency. In addition, you can use walking as a time to listen to educational podcasts or Youtube videos. 

Walking -- a win-win exercise!

Turning 74 This Month: It's Over

Unfortunately turning 74 this month my testosterone and metabolism are about to instantly crash overnight and I'll need to stop working out as I'm now way too old for exercise. Only fools move their body until they kick the bucket. It's also time to stop appreciating nature and the world around me. I can always connect to this world by sitting alone and watching Netflix. It's also clear to me that I'm too old to adapt and become the man I always wanted to be. As for learning new skills, working at relationships, and defining new dreams, those are now in the past. The days of taking time to appreciate the small joys of life, to express gratitude toward others, to focus on the positives, and to embrace change instead of resisting it are long gone.

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To be clear, I don't have my head in the sand when it comes to aging. Aging brings with it plenty of physical and mental vulnerabilities. Seniors face significant challenges such as chronic disease, cognitive decline, physical frailty, and social isolation. That said, age should never be a barrier to pursuing our passions. Engaging in activities that bring us joy and fulfillment are crucial for leading a fulfilling and active life. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, and maintaining a positive outlook on life are vital at any age. No matter how old we are, making a positive impact on the lives of others, especially our friends and loved ones, is a responsibility we should take with us to the grave. Here's my advice for my fellow seasoned citizens: 

Keep your mind active.

Constantly be growing in knowledge, whether it's learning a new language or simply keeping up with current events.

Stay as physically active as you can.

Keep nurturing your relationships with your friends and family members.

Continue to help those in need.

Don't stop setting goals or chasing down your dreams.

Guard your spiritual walk with the Lord. 

Yes, testosterone declines after 60, as does our metabolic rate. But blaming low testosterone or a low metabolism for not being active is mostly nonsense. The reason we guys get out of shape with age is from changes in our habits and lifestyle, not our biology. Sitting more, exercising less, higher stress, looser diet, more skipped walks out in nature -- these things are all fixable without a doctor's prescription. 

Aging comes with its significant challenges. But with a strong support system, seniors can continue to live meaningful and fulfilling lives. 

Sunday, May 31, 2026

Making the Most of Time

As we age we sometimes fail to see the opportunities God sets before us. He's constantly opening doors. Who knows -- our final years just might be the best years of our life.

The Latin word for opportunity is opportunitas. It comes from a combination of the word for "in front of" or "open" with the word for "port" or "harbor." The metaphor is of an open channel and a path for a ship to sail for a safe anchorage. I'll never forget sailing from Lahaina Harbor on Maui to the Ala Wai Yacht Harbor in Waikiki. A high school buddy and I decided to rent a 35-foot yacht for the voyage. Negotiating the treacherous Molokai Channel had worn us out, so it was a great relief when we finally saw the faint outline of Diamond Head in the distance and realized that we would soon be safely home.

Paul understood all this. In Eph. 5:16 he tells us to "redeem" or "buy up" the time. The word he uses for "time" could also be translated "opportunity." In fact, the NIV renders Paul's expression as "make the most of every opportunity." Who knows when a mundane hour will turn out to be a wonderful opportunity? When I was asked to teach Greek to pastors in Mainland China several years ago, I was thrilled to accept the invitation. Little did I know that my visit would be the first of 13 trips I made to China or that my beginning grammar would be translated into Simplified Mandarin!

Every day, you and I encounter opportunities to serve God. The indwelling Spirit makes us wide awake to such opportunities and gives us the freedom to enter them. As I turn 74 on June 9, my heart's prayer is a simple one:

"Lord, make me usable in 2026. Put me where I can best serve you. Help me be useful so in the end I won't feel useless!"

Friend, make the most of every opportunity God gives you. Start today. 

Big Waves Hit Waikiki

A big south swell is hitting Waikiki, Ala Moana, and Diamond Head this week. Check out this report. A High Surf Advisory remains in effect. This is the news we always hoped for when I was in high school. 

Ala Moana Bowls. 

It's on baby!

Dan River Walking

After church this morning I had a delightful walk on the Riverwalk Trail in Danville. 

Did you know that the Dan River crosses the North Carolina and Virginia state lines 8 times? 

There's nothing quite like the Dan River Basin. 

Amazing vistas.

Five major rivers.

Half a dozen lakes.

Clean air.

Friendly people.

Abundant wildlife.

Check it out when you can!