If you're new to my blog, I'm not a bodybuilder. My goals are actually pretty simple. I want to be fit for everyday life and stay healthy long term. I would also like to have a physique that looks strong and sharp without looking awkward or overdeveloped. Obviously, genetics plays a big role here. But you can target specific muscles by choosing the right exercises.
Most of you men reading this blog post want a body that looks and feels good. You probably want to lose some body fat, have a bit of muscle, see some abs, and maybe not be too embarrassed when you go shirtless on the beach.
People call this look an aesthetic physique. At this point, your clothes start fitting differently, your face looks narrower, and for the first time the mirror actually reflects all the hard work you've been putting in. To get here doesn't require some crazy diet or going to the gym 6 times a week. It's actually way simpler than you think.
It starts with being more mindful about the food you put into your body. The key here is simply making sure that most of what you eat is real food. Then we want to build muscle as we go. Building an aesthetic physique means being intentional about where you build those muscles. We want broad shoulders, a V-tapered back, and a chest and arms that fill out our shirt. You're not training to become a bodybuilder or a powerlifter. You're after a lean, athletic build. When I started lifting 5 years ago I never wanted to get shredded.

All I wanted was a lean, healthy, athletic physique, wider shoulders, a decent chest and arms, and some visible abs. If that's your goal as well, you don't have to do 2-hour workouts 6 days a week. You just need to focus your effort on very specific muscle groups. A routine that works well for this is a simple 3-day per week full body workout. These workouts take less than an hour and produce some amazing results. Again, we're not talking "massive" but "lean." When you think of Brad Pitt in Fight Club, he wasn't massive at all.
The reason Pitt looked so impressive was because he was lean with some muscle. You see, without losing that excess fat, an aesthetic physique is impossible.
So getting lean is a non-negotiable.
Now, this is going to take several years of really solid, consistent effort. You can't shortcut the process. This is why I always come back to the basics: incline bench presses, lat pulldowns, dumbbell biceps curls, lateral shoulder raises, and pullups. Here are some curls I did today:
That's basically it guys. My magic drug for aging well is called building muscle. The goal is a body that feels capable and strong, not just one that looks strong.
A lean physique is not just for super athletes. It's for all of us.
Keep in mind that there are options for different fitness levels, gym training, and home workouts, so you can make it work for your life.
At this point in my life, I don't train just for aesthetics. I train because I want to keep getting stronger, build more muscle, and be more able to do "life" as I age.
P.S. I've never met a guy with a good physique who couldn't do a pullup. If I could only do one exercise for the rest of my life, it would be the pullup. A few years ago when I finally decided to get a handle on my health and fitness, I couldn't do a single one. So I started with lat pull downs, like the ones I did today at the gym:
Then I progressed to band-assisted pullups. Eventually, the Lord granted me my first non-assisted pullup. Friend, you are capable of things you can't imagine now. Please, please, please keep working until you can do this:
You don't always get to see yourself changing while you are actually changing. The pullup allows you to do just that. No exercise is more simple -- or more brutally honest -- than the pullup. Your first pullup isn't just a fitness milestone. It's proof that your body is becoming stronger as a system.
Have a wonderful evening!