I love the story of Jabez in 1 Chron. 4:9-10. It's a cameo appearance if ever there was one. The man is basically a nobody, a bit player on a huge stage. But one day he decided to ask God to give him bigger challenges and to expand his territory. He wanted more opportunities out of life, and he got them.
That's exactly what happened to me 11 years ago after the death of my wife. I asked, and he granted my requests.
My friend, God is eager to do the same for you. If you're content with the rut you're in, maybe it's time to pray that God would enlarge your horizon. A relationship healed, a past memory erased, a sin forgiven, a habit broken, an alienated family member reconciled, a financial setback reversed, a feeling of inferiority replaced with a sense of self-worth -- nothing is too hard for God. Christ himself said so. "What is impossible for people is possible with God" (Luke 18:17).
Nothing is too difficult for him.