The sinner says to the Christian, "You will either hate me or affirm me." These are the only two options afforded. But the Christian can do neither. We can neither hate nor affirm the sinner. The Bible doesn't allow us to hate them. And the Bible doesn't allow us to affirm them. The Bible calls us to love them.
At a place called Calvary, Jesus put his life on the line for his friends. The world hasn't gotten over it yet.